Set Back or Set Up?

Okay update time! My move has been pushed back. Things were coming down to the wire and in the end didn’t go the way I would have hoped. Here’s the rundown:

So basically, I had to get an FBI background check and I didn’t pass. Just kidding. I got the background check done and was emailed my results in a password protected zip file. This is the new way that the US likes to do it because it’s faster and more efficient. Unfortunately, this is not the way Korea likes to do it! After deliberating and having my program director visit their office multiple times for hours on end, they rejected the document. They needed it to be printed out on a different kind of paper with a watermark instead of just on normal copy paper. For whatever reason, they could not verify it’s validity without this special paper. Yeah, my move is postponed because of one single piece of paper thats texture was incorrect…

This is frustrating because:

  1. I was supposed to go to LA to get my visa as soon as this was approved.
  2. I couldn’t communicate with people in Korea until night time so I wouldn’t know if I was going to LA until the night before.
  3. I had been speculating which day it was going to be and organizing my work schedule around it.
  4. It kept taking longer so I had to keep switching around my schedule.
  5. I was mentally prepared to be leaving the country in 11 days.
  6. After I got the document originally done, I have to apostille it which means someone in the US government has to verify the validity of the document and sign off on it ( so the paper shouldn’t matter because it’s already been signed off on).
  7. And I have to reprocess a document which I have already correctly processed just to have it printed on a different type of paper.
  8. Usually it takes 10-12 weeks to get this document by mail.

You can see how disheartening this would be which is why I spent the night crying and being upset. The immediate thought that crossed through my mind was “Maybe this means I shouldn’t go”. I was looking for an “out” because to be quite honest, the closer the day came the more nervous I was getting.

I had to stop and ask myself “What is the lesson here? Why is this hurdle being placed in my life?” Not to toot my own horn but I have recently discovered I am very good being self-aware and recognizing patterns in my life, and then I saw it.

Pattern: I spontaneously decide I want something. I sign up for it. It gets difficult. I don’t want it anymore.

Why is my first thought when something gets hard to quit?

I wasn’t expecting to learn any lessons before I even got to Korea, but then I realized…

When I’m there in a brand new environment and culture with brand new coworkers and personalities, many moments will be like this. My expectations will not always be met. I will be disappointed at times. Deadlines will change. Will I run home as soon as something doesn’t go my way?

Here’s where having good friends comes into play. I called my friend Amanda and she talked sense into me. “The Universe has perfect timing and you have to believe that this is all happening because it’s the best possible way.” I have to think of it as a set- up for something better instead of a set-back. I just have to detach myself from the result. As Tony Robbins says, “Trade expectation for appreciation”. I was upset, but I let go. It instantly worked miracles.

Yesterday, when I went to the get my fingerprints redone for the background check, the channeler ended up giving me the redo for free because she was sympathetic to my situation. She also found a way that would only take a few days instead of the 12 weeks it should have. As soon as I let go of what should happen, things started falling into place quickly. I have hope that everything will be resolved soon and I will be on the plane in no-time.

Que sera, sera!

Peace & Love,

Anna

Moving to Korea (The Process & My Experience) PART 1

Hey everyone!

Soooo if you didn’t see in my last post, I announced that I will be moving to Changwon, South Korea. Moving abroad is a long and tedious process. I know you could easily google it and find out for yourself but I think for my readers, friends, and family it might be more fun to hear my experience with it all: the good, the bad, and the horrifyingly hysterical. I’m gonna do sort of a Q&A format with myself for this one. This post will be split into 2 parts. The first part (this part) will be everything up to me getting the job and the second will be everything after.

Q: First things first, how did I choose Korea?

A: Originally, I really wanted to move to Europe. I thought a lot about Spain since I wanted to practice my Spanish or Portugal since I had already been and loved it. Ultimately, I decided that these choices weren’t for me for a few reasons.

Reason #1: MONEY

Salary and benefits aren’t that great in Europe or at least in those two areas. Most teachers just breakeven which is great. You get to travel around for a year and don’t lose any money. For me personally, I was looking for more than that and I knew I could get it elsewhere. After researching countries in Asia, I decided Korea had the best benefits including: paid airfare, paid studio apartment, good monthly salary, severance, pension, and low cost of living. This would help me to pay of my student loan debt while still living abroad and having extra money to travel around. SOLD.

Reason #2: EXPERIENCE

To be frank, everyone goes to Europe. It is beautiful and amazing and I hope to explore it in much more depth one day. But this was my one real chance to do something crazy and completely out of my element. I wanted an experience that many people don’t get to have so I started searching countries that seemed a little more “extreme” for lack of a better word.

Also, my grandparents worked in the military and lived in South Korea for many years. I had always been fascinated by their stories and their positive experience. They really embraced the culture, learned the language, and loved every second of it so Korea came into my mind quickly once I started thinking of Asia as an option.

Once I decided on Korea, the 3rd reason came into play.

Reason #3: RESEARCH

I did a shit ton of research. Like soooo much research. And by research I mean I locked myself in my room for one month and watched every vlog I could find of people who were/are teachers in Korea. THANK YOU INTERNET. I found so many cool ladies who were living in Korea doing their thing, living their best lives. It inspired me so much that I ultimately decided on Korea before then entering the next phase which was researching specific cities to see which ones seemed like a good fit. This phase was exhausting and tiring. I didn’t go to the gym for weeks. My eyes were glued to my computer screen. I wanted to be so sure of everything.

Here are two Youtubers whose videos I found the most useful:

Melody on the Move

Jessica Moy

I found few cities I was interested in and then went on to the next step!

Q: So, after you decided on Korea and a city, what did you do?

A: There are two general ways you can go about working abroad in Korea.

  1. EPIK PROGRAM: EPIK stands for English Program in Korea. This is the public school teaching system for expats. I will spoil the surprise: I did not go this route (so my knowledge is limited). From what I understand, this is the safer route because it is more regulated by the government, but they also pay less and you seem to have less control of where you end up. I believe you tell them your top location choices and you don’t find out where you are placed until you are actually in Korea for your 10 day orientation.
  2. Hagwon: The alternate option (my choice) was a private school. The process here is different. Most people go through a recruiter. I looked online at Dave’s ESL Cafe and responded to multiple listings there where I was then matched with recruiters. I am working with JAKS and have had a positive experience so far.

Q: What is the process of working with a recruiter like?

A: Okay, here is goes. Long list of steps to follow.

Step 1: Initial Interview + Documents

You will have an initial interview with a recruiter. They will ask you about your work experience and your resume. Note: You do not need experience teaching to work in Korea. You just need a BA degree in any field. They will also ask where you want to work and if you have your documents prepared.

WELCOME TO THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF PREPARING DOCUMENTS! CAN YOU FEEL THE FAKE EXCITEMENT IN MY TYPED OUT WORDS?

PRO TIP: As soon as you decide what country you want to work in, begin preparing your documents.

I decided last minute and in the peak of hiring season, so I had to act fast (which was costly). The two main things you need to have are your:

FBI Background Check & BA degree

The FBI check was the easier of the two. I got a live scan with an FBI Channeler, which I recommend. You usually go to get the live scan and then have to send it to the FBI, which takes weeks, but doing it with the Channeler allowed me to have my results immediately. Once you have your results, you have to send them to be apostilled. I paid 50 something dollars to have my apostille expedited because it can usually take around 6 weeks if not. So basically don’t do this last minute, if you don’t want to spend extra money to make it happen fast.

Then you have to get your degree notarized and apostilled as well! Woo hoo! There went another 60 something dollars of my hard earned cash. Since I had just graduated, I didn’t even have my physical copy of my degree yet. It took about 4 weeks after graduation to come in the mail so the whole process has been rushed.

I can not reiterate enough to start the process as early as possible.

Step 2: More Interviews

Your recruiter will match you up with private schools based on the area you wish you work in and then you will interview with the director at the school. They will offer you the job. The best advice I received was: Don’t feel forced to take the first one. There are so many jobs and so many schools waiting for you.

My first interview was great so I was instantly called to take it. I probably would have until they told me the person I would have been replacing decided they wanted to keep their job after all.

So, it was back to the diving board.

The next interview I had was AWFUL. They couldn’t Skype with me because their computer was broken and they asked me approximately 3 questions.

‘What’s your work experience?”

“Have you ever been to Korea?”

“Are you Asian because your last name is Lee?”

Oh, and a fourth question “Do you have any questions for us?”

Which I did, lots of them.

“What does the daily schedule look like?”

“What kind of breaks will I have?”

“Will I have prep time?”

etc.

The lady couldn’t answer any of the questions because she was new. Fine. Then she asked the director of the school who refused to answer my questions and told me to ask my recruiter (who doesn’t work for the school). She told me “She hoped she would see me in Korea,” and that was that. It’s was a HARD no (hard meaning BIG) from me.

But minutes later I had another interview with a different school that was great and ta-da I have a job in Korea!

TAKE YOUR TIME.

PRO-TIP: MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION TO ASK

CAN I TALK WITH SOMEONE WHO IS A TEACHER AT THE SCHOOL!?

They will give you a point of contact and you can ask them the real stuff you want to know and get a real not sugar coated answer. One of my coworkers stayed on the phone with me for nearly an hour as I asked her tons of questions and I still message her now with any questions that come up. LIFESAVER.

Okay that’s it for now! If you read this far please leave a comment or a like on this post, I want to thank you! I hope I explained thoroughly and entertainingly. Like I mentioned before, I will be releasing a part 2 to this post once I finish all of the steps for my visa!

Peace & Love,

Anna